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A Relationship Therapist Shares This Dating Tip: Did You Know That When Dating, Women Lead And Men Follow?

Deidré Wallace
4 min readMar 8, 2021

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A Relationship Therapist Shares This Dating Tip: Did You Know That When Dating, Women Lead And Men Follow?

Many men reading this might immediately think that the idea of a women leading the dating game — is to put men down. On the contrary. This article provides a tip to help people understand how we go about determining whether someone is right for us.

Over the years I have been taught and shown by the men in my family, my own relationships as well as by my very special and charismatic grandfather that during the dating game especially, women lead and men follow. Even as a relationship therapist this has been obvious.

Let me explain:

Even though men might be the hunters in the romantic field, it is the women who give the signals.

What does this mean?

During the wooing process: the dating, the first kiss, having sex, getting married and so on, is normally determined by the woman. She decides whether she wants to go out with him, kiss him, have sex with him, marry him and so on. She leads.

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Deidré Wallace
Deidré Wallace

Written by Deidré Wallace

As a Relationship/Corporate Therapist, I help highly effective people understand exactly how and why we choose our relationships: www.relationshipknowledge.com

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